Reader Tips: Learn how to take control
Lovehoney readers reveal their favourite sex tips...
If he's doing it wrong and won't respond to unspoken directives, take a tip from dog trainers, who know all about reinforcing good behaviour and punishing bad.
Respond positively only when he does something that feels good and give consistent signals (pull away, reposition yourself, go silent) whenever he tries a move you don't enjoy.
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