Indulge in a secret sex life
Erotic fantasy is the spice of any good sexual relationship, so let yours run wild in the bedroom...
A secret sex life can be a powerful aid if you're finding it difficult to reach orgasm with your lover. And no, by that we don't mean cheating on them with another person, but rather having a store of erotic thoughts that you can build upon and use to help you reach orgasm when you need some extra help.
By letting your mind wander to a favourite sex scene from a movie, thinking about a celebrity you have a crush on or by using orgasm visualization techniques, you can increase your chances of climaxing during sex, oral sex or solo masturbation.