Female ejaculation: Learn how to squirt!

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by Bad Kitty on September 06, 2007 10:09

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Yes, that's right - women can ejaculate too! And now you can learn how to squirt by yourself and with a partner...


Slimline G-Spot VibratorEven though it's only a small majority of women who can squirt further than some men, most women are capable of producing big gushes of milky white vaginal fluid when their G-spot is stimulated properly. It just takes time and practice, like everything else that's worth waiting for.

In order to get even close to ejaculating, you need to stimulate your G-spot. To find your G-spot, you or your lover will have to place a finger inside against your vaginal wall and waggle it in a 'come hither' motion. You should be able to feel a raised, textured area that's different to the rest of the vaginal wall. G-spots vary from woman to woman, but they're usually spongy in texture, even though the size and pleasure capacity varies with each individual.

It's worth pointing out here that while some women will literally wet themselves with pleasure when their G-spot is stimulated, others won't be too bothered and some may find it annoying. But if you want to give female ejaculation a shot, you need to get used to having your G-spot touched and stimulated.

LoveHoney Jessica Rabbit 2.0 G-Spot Vibrator

To stimulate your G-spot, you can either use your fingers, your partner's fingers, several different sex positions such as Doggie style or Reverse Cowgirl (lean back so that your partner's penis really hits the spot) or  a specially designed sex toy such as the LoveHoney Jessica Rabbit 2.0 G-Spot Vibrator.

When learning how to squrt, you may feel as though you want to pee when you start stimulating your G-spot, which can be an uncomfortable feeling for some women, but as long as you've emptied your bladder before you started then you won't pee the bed. Just keep going and that urge to wee will soon pass; replaced by a deeply satisfying sensation the further on you go.

A G-spot orgasm can take some time to achieve, but it's well worth the effort. Once you get to the point where you feel as though you're going to have an earth-shattering orgasm, push your PC muscles out (rather than clenching them in) to increase your chances of squirting or gushing. You may want to place a towel underneath you during your first few attempts... Just in case!

So, what are the basics in learning how to squirt?

1. Find your G-spot.
2. Stimulate your G-spot using fingers, your partner's penis or a specially designed sex toy.
3. Keep going until you feel an intense sensation deep in your vagina.
4. Push your PC muscles out as you orgasm.
5. Gush and gush and gush!

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Comments (75)

  • Jo: September 23, 2007 20:09

    Hi I had a repair operation on my bladder. They cut a musle out of my vagina wall. Will still be able to have a G spot orgasm.
    Thanks Jo

  • Rena: November 08, 2007 18:11

    Hi i never knew that women could squrit too!WOW! Okay well me and my women partner want to learn how we think it will put a sprak in the bedroom, but i just dont know how can you teach me?

  • Diane: November 24, 2007 18:11

    I get nervous sometimes,trying new things but I really want to know how to squirt, and other awesome sex! And new sex postions

  • lisa raye: January 09, 2008 05:01

    I want to squirt so bad....
    I don't think my boyfriend of 2years can do that...
    But I think I have done it before because it felt like I was peeing on his face but it wasn't. But I haven't been able to do it again....

  • EmiB.: January 10, 2008 21:01

    I think i have squirted once. i thought i had just peed, but now i'm sure i didn't. It's the only time, though. I would love to again, but i still worry that it won't work and i'll just pee. But i'm not afraid to keep trying;)

  • CM: January 17, 2008 22:01

    I've recently started squirting - never happened to me before a few months ago, but now I can't get enough. For me, the G spot doesn't need to be involved, I've been squirting purely through clitoral stimulation with a vibrator. It takes between 20-40 minutes. I'll have 2 or 3 mini orgasms before the final squirt. When it comes it's clear water like liquid, and it's not entirely clear where it's coming from - comes out in 5 or 6 big gushes. The amount varies, it's usually about 1-2 cups full, but I swear I just gushed out aroud a pint, hence my browsing this site!

  • RMH: January 29, 2008 00:01

    My boyfriend wants me to squirt so bad, and I have been trying but it never seems to work. I can never get past the urge to pee. Is there anything special that needs to be done to the G spot other than just stimulation to make me squirt?

  • Dave: January 29, 2008 11:01

    Girls is very easy to squirt, i make all my GF squirt bucket loads, the technique looks quite brutal email me at manofsteel@comic.com and ill explain in more detail. My wife has to put down towels when we do it lol.

  • realmanofsteel: January 30, 2008 01:01

    @manofsteel!! I think they are all just peeing on you :)

  • mike: February 04, 2008 21:02

    dearest all squirting friends
    i've recently met a young lady who didn't tell me she is a member of the squirting club UK branch. When it happened i thought I had punctured something inside with what i now consider to be my feasibly large manrod. For all those trying to squirt my advice would be to relax, think of nice things then ride that pony like you've never ridden before!

  • dstrbd: February 09, 2008 03:02

    wow this tip really worked..i squirted like i never thought i could!!! thanks!!!

  • Coopsandvik: February 23, 2008 20:02

    my girl squirts all the time, its my aim to get her to gush, we have achieved it many times over and managed to soak the entire double bed. awesome.
    relax and keep trying, you have to feel comfortable to do it in front of your partner but once you gush on them, they only want more of it.
    good luck to all

  • Rois: February 28, 2008 03:02

    i've never even cum before!!! what the hell is wrong with me? how do i squirt?! somebody help me!!!!

  • paul: March 14, 2008 17:03

    I love it when my girl squuirts all over my face !!

  • neo: April 12, 2008 22:04

    ive been wiv me lass 4 3 years n she has never been able to squirt, have you got some first steps to go about it plzzz lots of love the 1 n only neo ps im in need..

  • Kelly: April 19, 2008 13:04

    My husband was fingering me so good, and i couldn't believe it either, but i did squirt!! He was so turned on by this, so now he wants it to happen all the time, it doesn't take much now, using his hands, vibrator, or his penis, as long as were doing it doggie style!! what a great sexual feeling!!

  • BARBARA JOHNSON: April 28, 2008 20:04

    I JUST WANT TO SAY THAT I HAVE SQUIRTED BEFORE AND IN WAS WITH CLIT STIMULATION ONLY.AND IT WAS GFEAT.

  • lucy00: May 14, 2008 16:05

    I JUST TRYED IT AND I DID IT! AND IT WASNT WHAT I THOUGHT WOULD HAPPEN IT WAS A LITLE SQUIRT THEN I THINK I JUST PEEED, LOLOL BUT CANT WAIT TO TELL MY HUSBAND. I WENT TO JENNY SPRAYS SITE SHE EXPLAINED HOW TO DO IT VERY WELL THANKS JENNY.

  • JAMIE: May 20, 2008 07:05

    OK I HAVE BEEN WITH MY HUSBAND FOR 5 YEARS AND HAVE BEEN SEXUALLY ACTIVE SINCE I WAS 13 I AM NOW 22!! I KNOW YOUNG RIGHT? WELL ANYWAYS I HAVE 3 CHILDREN AND DON'T HAVE THE GREATEST BODY AFTER THAT GOING FROM 110LBS TO 210LBS THEN ONLY LOSING ABOUT HALF OF THAT. I FEEL UNATTRACTIVE AND NOT VERY COMFORTABLE WITH MY BODY. MY BEST FRIEND TOLD ME SHE CAN SQUIRT AND MY COUSIN HAS TOLD ME THAT SHE CAN AND THEY DON'T HAVE TO TRY THEY JUST DO. MY HUSBAND WANTS ME TO SQUIRT SO BADLY HE SAYS ITS REALLY HOTT!! WELL NEEDLESS TO SAY I HAVE BEEN TRYING LIKE CRAZY BUT I CANT DO IT. I AM ALSO A VERY HARD PERSON TO BRING TO CLIMAX HE HAS TO DO EXACTLY WHAT I SAY I HAVE TO BE ON TOP RIDING HIM OR ON THE BOTTOM WITH HIM HOLDING HIMSELF UP AND ME GRINDING HIM UNDERNEATH. I CANT GET OFF WITH JUST IN AND OUT I CANT GET OFF DOGGY STYLE OR WITH HIM EATING ME OUT. I JUST DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO. PLEASE IF SOMEONE COULD PLEASE GIVE ME SOME TIPS IT WOULD BE GREATLY APPRECIATED!! THANK YOU ALL ~JAMIE IN DESPERATE NEED OF SATISFYING MY HUSBANDS NEEDS AND MY FANTASIES!!

  • marii: June 19, 2008 19:06

    Hey me and my bf have been having sex for a few months. He's been trying to make me cum ever since the first time. He's eaten me out and fingered me and everythng but still nothing. I really want to squirt.any suggestions?

  • UnderclassHero: July 09, 2008 20:07

    I'm 18 years old and my boyfriend and I have been together for a year now. His goal since we started having sex has been to make me squirt. Now, we've done everything from fingering, eating out, different positions to even using toys. Nothing has worked. I've heard the girl has to be completely comfortable and can't fear peeing on the guy because that's what it feels like when it happens. I no longer fear that anymore but it still doesn't happen. Do you think it could be the lack of time we have to do it because a lot of the time, we have to rush before anyone gets home.

  • susiemacq: July 12, 2008 20:07

    i have been with the bf for about 6 weeks and have never squirted before, but since being with him i cant stop,..... main key is to relax and when u think u cant take no more, keep going.....and going and just enjoy it..... first time we were doing anal with vibe and clit stim at same time and i gushed so much it went thru the bed and soaked the carpet...but boy was it worth it!!!

    keep trying peeps

    good luck

  • Adina: July 22, 2008 07:07

    Hi,

    To the people wanting to squirt and not feeling able to, relax! Be patient. If your boyfriend really wants you to, chillax. Do it alone first! Use a dildo, and let yourself 'pee' (it's not really pee) but figure out how your body feels and what it does on your own, then have fun with your boyfriend. You'll know what you need!

  • Jo: August 18, 2008 06:08

    I have been wanting to squirt for ages now but have never managed to get there. im so jealous of girls who do it all the time it seems so easy for them, my man wants me to squirt so bad guess im just gona have to keep trying. If anyone has any more tips for me would love to read and try them.
    In desperate need to squirt.

  • K: September 02, 2008 16:09

    Just wondering, if you are in your 40's.....is it possible to squirt? I have amazing o's, but never have squirted like this......help!

  • Aysha: September 05, 2008 18:09

    my boyfriends finds girls squirting soo hot watchin it in porn (hes never seen it in reallife) so i really want to be able 2 do it to please him, he fingers me and says he can feel my muscles tightening round his fingers and he can feel it building up inside me and almost like my gspot is swelling up, and i get the feeling like im going to pee, so he carries on, but the feeling just goes after a while and he has to stop as his arms ache lol!!! someone please tell me what we're doing wrong??
    are those gspot vibes with the clit stimulator attachment good at making girls squirt??
    would using a vibe on my clit at the same time as him fingering me bring me over the edge???

    add me to tell me wot im doing wrong please girls!
    x.aysha-baybie.x@live.co.uk

  • Mandingo: November 01, 2008 12:11

    I discovered women could squirt a year ago and ever since then its been very exciting for me. So much so that i have mastered the technique. My wife cums bucket loads soo much that we need to change the sheets each time we have sex. It really turns me on and she loves it very much, its very easy as long as your man knows exactly where to hit. my email is ice2cold5@googlemail.com and i will be happy to teach you what i know.

  • bal: November 09, 2008 08:11

    My wife is squir expert. She makes me fuck here many time when she squirts.

  • mel: November 19, 2008 04:11

    My wife gets the feeling of squirting when I finger or penetrate her hitting the G-spot, yes she feels like squirting but for some reasons, still can't get it out...

    Somebody help? Do I have to pull out the moment she wants to squirt??

  • GazelleGirl: November 19, 2008 18:11

    I have had many experiences of squirting and can assure you it's 100% possible for most women. It was only approx 20 years ago here in the West that doctors said the female (clitoral) orgasm did not exist! It surely does. And in same way so do squirting orgasms - they've been written about for thousands of years In Eastern culture.

    There's a whole load of free info on female ejaculation / how to squirt on this site:

    http://www.Learn-To-Squirt.com

    Check it out - really useful and FREE!

  • paricarmen: January 14, 2009 07:01

    OMG!!! The first time i ever squirted was an accident. I like to be naked in my apartment all the time.. i was eating a peanut and jelly sandwich when a dab fell on my pussy. My dog started licking it and i tried to stop it. BUT IT JUST FELT SO GOOD! So i started having this weird sensation in my abdomen and all of a sudden i just started squirting!! I cuz my gushing scared him away, because he ran like a bitch. And now i ALWAYS try to put jelly on my pussy ... but i've never been able to squirt again.. can anybody help me? Is there anything wrong with me?

  • emma: April 04, 2009 23:04

    i have squirted in the past, twice, and its completely freaked the guy out, now im with someone who would love me to squirt or even pee on him, and i would love to reciprocate, but i have had had several colcoscopies since then, will it still be posible,or is it pschological,having held it back for so long?

  • lucy00: April 05, 2009 01:04

    This is for paricarmen.I think the fact the dog was licking you turned you on so much that you squirted. I know I have to feel really,really turned on to squirt.

  • xoxo: April 23, 2009 13:04

    LOL people want to squirt bad huh. I'm a squirter :) i've been doing it for like 2 years now, i loooooooooooove it. but yeah girls who reaaally want to squirt, remember there's not just a g-spot there's something they call a a-spot(which is deep in the pussaaay) , and when they are both played with it's easier to squirt lol ;)

  • charlie: April 29, 2009 23:04

    Im 28 and have never been able too squirt. I have been tring plaing with my pussy and using my toys. But nothing seems to work. Can anyone help me out with that or just give me some tips, i would love to find out how to make my pussy squirt.

  • Spir: May 02, 2009 07:05

    Ive been reading these comments, and lots of women are having trouble that they cannot squirt.

    After finding that I can squirt and experimented with different ways, it is definately Vital that you do not reject the 'Peeing' sensation. Sometimes it even helps to push slightly (like you were trying to pee, if your bladder is empty it should be fine).

    A position i found to be very easy to squirt in is lying on my back with some pillows under me, so that my bum is raised. Then my partner using his fingers/me using a vibe to masturbate. Since your bum is elevated your partner doesnt have to bend his fingers as much, making it less tiring. So by fingering at an angle it automatically touches the Gspot.

    I also found that my partner/vibe needs to Pull out very quickly (and not to slow down then pull slowly). Straight out. When I feel the sensation building to the point where it gets slightly unbareable. When I feel myself trying to squirm away from the fingers/vibe it is just about the right time to pull out and push.

    The quick pullout and me 'pushing' like i am trying to pee, works every time. After time I started squirting without pushing. I found pushing just let me find that i could do it and how it feels, and when I feel like squirting.
    Hope this helps you other girls.

  • denise~101: May 02, 2009 09:05

    hey
    i've been trying really hard to cum and squirt.
    i've been doing this by myself and i find it quite hard
    any suggestions ?

  • theladyinblack: May 02, 2009 19:05

    Hey, this is for Spir, thankyou! id really really love to do this, and your advice seems much more detailed than any other ive been able to come across. so when i next can im gonna give it a try. Seems to have worked wonders for you so fingers crossed :) Also, the feeling to pee gets so strong some times when im with my man that i ask him to stop for a moment... so hopefully thats a good sign in the ability to squirt. Thankyou again :D

  • janty: May 03, 2009 00:05

    Hello, I am 46, and my lover makes me squirt loads, we have to put a towel on the bed, and it gets soaked! The easiest way is for him to use a dildo, very hard and fast, it takes only a minute or so to make me cum in liquid form, and he loves to watch, finds it fascinating! Another way is to get him to bite my ear-tips very hard and growl at the same time, while he is fucking me - or is that just me? Can't say I have heard of anyone else doing this, but it works for me, so give it a whirl.

  • sexaddicts: May 04, 2009 00:05

    im makin my girlfriend squrt now!

  • xxsjxx: May 19, 2009 16:05

    I never ever experineced anything like this until I relaxed around my partner and let it happen.

    He loves making me cum and generally I just gush, however the other night I squirted properly for the 1st time.

    My partner thinks making me cum/squirt is such a turn on. He would rather pleasure me continously - i am soooooo lucky hehe

    xx

  • Orangejelly: May 22, 2009 09:05

    I'm just gettinginto Tantra and i asume its quite important for me to give this a go, thou my husband has tryed in desperation I don't really like the g-spot being touched but I hope i will one day
    Good luck girls

  • Kerry: May 24, 2009 19:05

    hi love reading all this comments wish i'd found this site before(like years ago) anyway don't know if it helps but i have a friend who found me again on a social network and we flirted outrageously on line and after 5 weeks we arranged to meet up needless to say we ended up fooling around and he fingered me a lot and for the first time ever my g spot was played with and i squirted unintententionly. I apologised as soon as i could talk again and he said it was brill that i was a squirter as he loves it but his ex couldn't do it. So my point is relax have fun and don't "think" about it. It'll happen when you are relaxed and having fun. I can't wait till the next time we meet .

  • Rach: May 28, 2009 23:05

    Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for over 3 years now, I often feel like i'm going to squirt when i'm riding him, but I get too freaked out by the peeing urge that I feel.. so i stop in case i do! I want to keep going as i can tell it would feel amazing and he'd really get off on it.. Anybody got any tips on how to get over that feeling? ive tried by myself but no vibrator nor masturbation feels as good as his cock.
    Thanks :)

  • kerry: May 29, 2009 14:05

    Rach unless you suffer from incontinence then go to loo before you start and then relax when you are riding him you won't pee but the feeling/orgasm is intense so enjoy and you're right vibrators and masturbation while good is no substitute for a good cock

  • nick: May 29, 2009 18:05


    my wife has always squirted ever since i first met her years ago.i have used toys on her as well as my cock.and she always squirts.the most enjoyable that we do.is for her to sit on my face and i give her oral.i know this might sound a bit of a turn of for some people.but i do enjoy the taste of her squirt.when she is about ready to cum she pushes herself down on me and i drink her.now us men expect our women to suck us dry so why not return the favour.it has a tangy taste to it and for some will take a little getting used to.but after a while you might get to like the taste of it.now if your lady squirts give it a try.some of you will like it some will not

  • Brittany: June 01, 2009 09:06

    Hi. I have just recently found out that a women can ejaculate. When I have sex I do get the 'I have to pee' feeling. I try, and try but it never happens. The other night I was having sex, and the urge to pee was really intense. I did feel like it was going to come out, and my boyfriend started fingering me, I tried my hardest to get it out; it just never came. I have heard you have to feel comfortable, and you have to trust the person. Well, I do. I just want to. I have read all about it, and how to do it. I have tried everything. It is so frustating.

  • nick: June 03, 2009 23:06


    i have sat down with my wife and we both read all the posts on here and after a talk we both came to an agreement that most if not all the women who have posted on this topic are trying to hard to squirt.the best advise that we can give any woman who is trying to squirt is put it out of your mind and relax and let your orgasam do the work.get your man to work on you g.spot and go with the flow of your orgasam as i said before.my wife can do some mind blowing squirting.and my fave postion is when my wife sits on my face untill she cums and drinking her sweet necter is a taste that gets me going.so ladys dont think about squirting because if you try to hard to wont happen.just relax and it will happen

  • Valerie: June 08, 2009 06:06

    Hey, Ive recently found out about squirting and I really really wanna do it! I gave it a go in the wekend by getting my bf to finger me and stimulate my gspot, I got the peeing sensation and got really really wet but didnt squirt....I stoped after a while, just gave up as the peeing feeling was getting more and more intense and Id already been doing it for like 20 minutes so assumed it wouldnt happen. (I didnt actually have to pee, I emptied my bladder fully just before).

    Then I tried again today, my partner was fingering me with two fingers while I was playing with my clit, I got the peeing feeling again, this time very intense and my legs were shaking, I was really turned on and my heart was racing I knew I was going to orgasm and I got that feeling you get the second youre about to pee, So I pushed down like I was trying to pee, but nothing came out....I kept trying for maybe 5 minutes then just gave up. I think Im getting frustrated because I cant seem to squirt and this might be stopping me from relaxing and being able to do it.

    Do you have any advice? How exactly should my parnter be stimulating my gspot? And if I had kept going after the peeing feeling would I have been able to sqirt? Ive heard it can take a loooong time before it happens and quite a bit of practise. I really want to be able to squirt. Any tips would be welcome!!!

  • kerry: June 08, 2009 14:06

    ladies please stop forcing it, relax and go with the flow (no pun intended )you are all individuals and for some it may take time and for others it will just be a few minutes. I had NO experience or even heard of female ejaculation but as said previously my g spot was fingered and before I could respond or not I squirted. I was very relaxed and in an extremly good mood, happy and under no illusion this man wanted me faults and all. Good luck

  • nick: June 08, 2009 22:06


    thank you kerry you have re enforced my point about squirting.as you rightfully say relax and dont think about it.like your partner i do enjoy seeing my partner squirt.i know that i am giving her plesure.and to me is the most inportant thing any man can give a woman.after all the plesure a woman gives a man.

  • mamby: June 13, 2009 22:06

    I've been able to squirt for a few years now - but only began with my hubby after a play session.. the key IS to relax and just close your eyes letting the sensation wash over you and waheyyy.. you'll soon be washing him too.. lol.. We found out it could happen by accident - we'd been playing for a little and had orgasmed twice then I stood up and as I did - hubby started to play with my clit as he fingered me.. next thing I know after a lot of tingles rushing through me.. his hand was soaked and so was the carpet.. ;o)
    now we try to have a good session least once a week where sole aim is for me to 'squirt' but even during 'normal' intercourse - I have 2 or 3 'mini' orgasms before exploding and soaking everything below me..
    god it feels soooooooo good..

  • Ampeli: June 17, 2009 13:06

    My wife started squirting just over a year ago and she is 48. The best sensation for me is when I watch her masturbating and when she gets close to coming I take over with my tongue. It doesn't usually take long for me to push her over the edge - and when I do my oh my! I literally drink from the cup of heaven when she comes, and it is the horniest and most intimate thing I have done with my beloved (and her ejaculation tastes divine!!)

  • wet wet wet: June 20, 2009 07:06

    I first squirted and then gushed when a woman joined me and my husband for a 3 some. she masturbated me while I was sitting on the sofa with my legs wide open and my shaved pussy onview. My husband was watching and wanking himself. There was a huge eruption and a big puddle of cum on the floor mine and his - the woman licked me out and I came more and more my husband was delighted he came in my mouth as she slurped my cum and then my husband and I 69's and fucked as she watched and wanked her self off pitty she never even squirted - Think it was the control thing for us and being watched.

  • wet wet wet: June 20, 2009 07:06

    On reading the coments more closely and having played with my self and visualised my first squirt. I would recommend that you play with a woman. You dont have to be bi or bicurious or gay to do this. Women know womens bodies and it is very much fun my 'girl' never fucked my husband just pleasured me. she didnt even have to finger me deep just masturbate me externally and give me lots of vibration( only with her hands) stimulation. just gentle finger tip stimulation. oh am so horny thinking about it - even though it was 3 years ago. Gotta go and shake my funky stuff and make my pusy wet and full of cum. xx

  • Noki: July 06, 2009 22:07

    Ive been trying to squirt but nothing really seems to work.....and im sure it will turn my husband on plz help!!!! CAN SOMEONE PLZ GIVE ME STEP BY STEP DIRECTIONS?????

  • Valerie: July 07, 2009 14:07

    I had another go with my bf first thing in the morning and hadnt gone to the toilet for like 8 hours!!! OH GOD hahah I ended up beeing all over him BUT like two seconds before i peed I squirted, and I know it wasnt pee, it was a different feeling, it was clear and came out differently, then next thing I knew I was peeing on my partner....But i did suirt for the second before I peed, so next time Ill try after having gone to the bathroom before hand! Good luck, dont worry about it and dont pressure urself to squirt, just have fun, and now that u know what that pee feeling is just let go and relax and ull squirt, but if ur trying it wont happen!

  • LoveHoney - Carly: July 08, 2009 09:07

    Some women squirt, some women don't. Putting pressure on yourself and stressing out about it will make it an even harder goal to reach, so just relax and see what happens!

    Different techniques work for different people, but by following the instructions listed in the original blog post (look up!) you may be able to acheive it.

    However, as I've already noted - not all women can do it. Your partner is probably a very happy (and turned on) man when he can just make you orgasm normally, so thinking that only female ejaculation will make him happy will only serve to make you feel inferior and upset! Just relax and enjoy the sensations - don't try and force things.

  • sexaddictrebex: July 25, 2009 17:07

    hi. my bf makes me do it loads. you just gotta let yourself go and be comfortable with doing it infront of someone. if your not comfortable do it on your own. take some time to find your g spot cos once you do youll no about it. it feels great when it happens but put some towels down or youll end up with a wet bed. xx

  • Gema: July 28, 2009 10:07

    I know how to squirt but I have only done it when im alone. Id feel really awkward if I squirted in bed with a guy!!

    But to do it all I would say is dont hold back !!

  • Georgiie: August 04, 2009 03:08

    Oh My Gosh !! Ii Soo Wish Ii Could Squirt But Ii Dont UnderStand Why Ii Carnt Do it :( Ii Doo Try To Push Down But When Ii Do It Doesnt Work All The Time An When It Does its Only Like A Realy Tiny Amount :( Advice Any1 ?x


  • kitty: August 04, 2009 08:08

    My boyfriend just loves me to squirt. He cant get enough of it - on his hands, his face his dick. Just about anywhere. He loves to watch me come and feel me squirt on his chest and in his mouth. He just plays with my pussy until I squirt all over him. Some times I even manage to squirt when he is fucking me.

    I was gardening the other day and he did it right there and then just stuck his hand under my skirt and fingered and stroked my pussy he says he loves to feel me get wet - so slippery that he can nearly put his whole hand in my quivering soaked pussy. Then he just keeps playing his fingers, first gently and then harder - only the tips like playing a guitar until i feel the rush, its like a rumble of thunder he keeps strumming away. The thunder gets louder the rumble harder, my legs are quaking. By now I am sitting on the garden wall with my legs apart. He has such a big hard on its amazing I can see it poking over the top of his trousers. so I open his fly and let it pop out. I just like to see it. Wont touch it yet! Dont want him to loose rythm. He keeps playing with my lovely juicy cunt, just grazing my clit with his fingers. Faster faster fingers in and out I am dripping on the ground below me. Oh and then I gush all over his hands. He bends further forward to catch some of my come in his mouth and kisses me so I can taste myself.

    Now its his turn - I let him enter me - pushing really deep (he is a big boy) The wall is just the right hight (must do this more often) he is hard and keeps slipping out cos I am so wet. He turns me around and enters me from behind - hard thrusts - I stop him cos I want to suck his cock. He is so hard I can hardly fit it in my mouth. When he is nearly there I make him finish it cos I like to watch his face - just as he is ready to come I take over and make sure his come squirts right into my mouth. A lovely afternoon in the sun. Have to do the washing next - household chores should always end like this and in my house do on a regular basis - mind you I rarely finish anything - well just me and him.

  • mike: August 13, 2009 00:08

    As a red blooded heterosexual male, I have the fortune of knowing that my better half can and does squirt and often in amazingly copious quantities.

    My partner squirted for the first time some six months into our relationship and has done so, in various degrees of intensity, practically every time we have sex (which is often and very much above the average !!)

    In my mind there are a number of factors that can contribute to the probability of your lady spraying these love fluids over you
    - the love and passionate physical desire you have for each other
    - intimate knowledge of each others body and what turns you both on
    - being mentally and physically relaxed
    - having no expectations of how your lovemaking will develop or end.

    My physical desire for my lady (and I think also hers for me) is as strong now as it was when we met 17 years ago. Just to look at her makes me want to see her naked.and to please her and me sexually..

    One has to be prepared for an impending gush-fest. An incontinence sheet and a sizeable towel should cope with any amount of fluid emissions and will keep the mattress relatively dry.

    I love to see my lady squirt, and I find it incredibly erotic and satisfying when she ejaculates when I am gently rolling my tongue around her clitoris and labia, with occasional thrusts into her vagina. The fluids that erupt from her are ofetn of immense intensity and I love to swallow as much as I can. I can see that the fluids do not emanate from her urethra, but spurt very strongly from inside her vagina.

    She must always have room to squirt. When my cock is deep inside her cunt, and I feel she is about to orgasm, I pull my cock out a little. Her vaginal muscles contract violently around my penis, and a I feel a warm jet of fluid over my cock, balls, and when she is on top, all over my body......under these circumstances there is no way I can hold back and I shoot mycream deep inside her honeypot.......absolute ecstasy for me and also for her !....and so often....I am indeed a very lucky man !

    If this happens to you, you will be in heaven.....ladies, mutual love, desire,intimacy, consideration and relaxed atmosphere will increase your ejaculation potential.


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  • k: September 25, 2009 17:09

    i dint realise i could squrt until about a year ago.It was a warm day and i was feelong horney,my husband was at work so i foind myself choosing a sex toy to satisfy myself,i stripped off and sat on top of my rabbit in front of my mirror so i could watch it all,it didnt take long to get going as i was stroking my by now pert nipples then out of nowhere totally unexpected i squirted it was heaven and i was tremling with satisfaction? My husband now likes to watch as i re-create the events of that afternoon and i get satifaction of squirting and my husbands reaction to it?

  • Lea: September 25, 2009 21:09

    Hmm I can say that this might have happened to me only once when I was taking a bath but I'm not sure:/ heh Anyways, when I get horny, I become extremely wet. And I know where my G-spot is and the feeling when I have to pee but when I reach that point in masturbation, I'm not able to squirt for some reason. And then I climax in the usual away. Though after that I go to the bathroom and empty my bladder because much liquid is in there. My only fear is that if I squirted, that the liquid could end up somewhere unexpected, and I live with parents so I don't have a relaxing atmosphere. Each time I masturbate, I'm in a fear that someone could open the door and see what I'm doing:( I wish someday I'll find a nice boyfriend, that I'll live with him and have my own privacy:)

  • janty: September 26, 2009 16:09

    I have been relaxed enough to gush and squirt with my lover for some time now, but on Tuesday, we tried an experiment to see how well-trained and responsive I have become. As soon as we were alone in my bedroom, he sucked my very sensitive nipples hard, it took some time but YES, he managed to make me cum as a lovely liquid expression. I am lucky to have such a skilled lover, and to be extremely responsive to him. He likes me to fill his mouth with my "janty-juice", which he then passes to my mouth for tasting, before taking in back from me . I wonder what other experiments we can think of.....

  • Delighted!: October 24, 2009 07:10

    Oh my gosh! Having read this, I just had to try! Normally I give up after needing to pee but having just tried it I can rather damply confirm it worked! Cannot wait for my boyfriend to come home now, he will love my new 'skill'.

    Thank you all so so much!

  • YummyMummy: December 02, 2009 20:12

    I used to be embarrassed about squirting as its something that happens to me usually when havin oral! but my new man is rather impressed with my unexpected ability, and he loves it when i do. And since i've been with him it happens more often and not just during oral either

  • Yesssss: December 30, 2009 06:12

    i have always bee curious of the sensation from squirting, i have seen it lots of times and just thought my body wasnt made for it.. i was randonly googling stuff and came accross this page that said most woman can do it so i tried.

    Thb i found the g spot easy, but the rubbing it, i dint really know what i was doing, i couldnt really feel anything.. so i just kept pressing it and rubbing it while browing on the net, waiting for sum sort of sensation. then all of a sudden just had a massive gush.. it wasnt powerfull, it was running softly over my hands.. i think this is due to me not rubbing the clit to arrouse even more and build up tension, but shortly after yes i did feel the urgde to pee.. i didnt know whether that would be the squirt or whether it was genuine pee, so i decided not to take the risk and i was right.

    but thats for your help, you have really opened my mind and my boyfriend will be on his knees begging me to teach him haha x

  • mic: January 05, 2010 01:01

    Hi
    Been with my lover (not my wife) for 18 mths now. After about 5 mths together she squirted with her on top- ever since then she squirts all the time -in every position but her on top is the best. Fingering is also good-two fingers on G spot and go fast. No need to use clit. The funny thing is she has never squirted before and her husband cant and neither can I make my wife but were happy!

  • cat: January 05, 2010 21:01

    Despite having several sexual partners, at 23 I’d never had an orgasm and thought female ejaculation was a myth. Then I found my current boyfriend and everything changed. The second time we slept together I was on top, I could feel a big orgasm building then all of a sudden we were both drenched! I quickly ran and hid in the bathroom, not knowing what had just happened :)
    When I went back to the bedroom I was met by my very happy (and wet) partner who explained that I’d just ejaculated.
    In the five years since then it happens pretty much every time we’re together, whether he’s touching, licking, having sex or even just kissing me. My problem now seems to be not being able to control when I squirt – I have soaked many mattresses, sofas, carpets etc – so it means we have to be careful where we fool around.
    I agree with mike (Aug 13,2009 00:08) that there are many factors that contribute to this happening –
    I feel totally relaxed with my partner and trust him completely, both emotionally and physically.
    We are very sexually compatible and are in tune with each other.
    There is never any pressure to ‘perform’ – whether it’s slow sensual love-making or raw rough f*cking the emphasis is on enjoying each other rather than putting on a show or trying to impress.
    My advice to anyone yet to experience ejaculation would be to relax & don’t put any pressure on yourself or your partner to make it happen. This method might make it more likely but there are no guarantees so if it doesn’t happen, don’t stress:
    Go to the loo beforehand so you’re not worried about peeing on your partner.
    Do whatever you do to make you both really horny and sensitive to his touch (kissing, teasing, bondage, whatever).
    Try laying on your back with a pillow under your bum so your hips are tilted upwards and get your partner to insert one or two fingers (with his palm facing upwards) so he can curve his fingers slightly and apply pressure to your g-spot.
    At this point he can also stimulate your clit or apply gentle pressure with his other hand to your lower stomach to push your g-spot onto his fingers from outside your body (not sure if I’ve managed to explain this clearly, sorry).
    If you start to feel like you need to pee, don’t worry you don’t, just relax and keep going. The most important thing now is just to let go and allow the orgasm to happen, don’t fight the sensation or tense up.
    I hope this helps, enjoy yourselves x

  • Alk: January 15, 2010 20:01

    Hey, i managed to squirt after a long time trying to do so, but im still worried is it for sure that after emptying my bladder theres no way to pee instead of squirting...?? (when i managed to squirt i could tell it was a clear fluid and not pee, but i don't want to embarrass myself in front of my boyfriend in case that besides emptying my bladder there still is a chance i will....pee instead...!!)

  • LoveHoney - Carly: January 18, 2010 08:01

    Hi Alk,

    If you've gone to the toilet beforehand, then you're definitely not weeing on your partner!

    Weeing is something you can control, however squirting is almost involuntary and will happen through strong stimulation, whether you like it or not! Similarly, you'll notice that female ejaculate, like you said, is clearer and a different consistency to urine.

    Please don't worry that you're going to wee on your partner. If you've emptied your bladder beforehand and are really relaxed, it is almost definitely ejaculation. So embrace it and have fun!

  • Claire: February 09, 2010 14:02

    I've been squirting for a while now and I pretty much can't come and stay dry any more.

    I find that the best way to squirt is to get really close to coming, and then have your partner move the toy, or thrust into you, really fast. If you get the right angle (sort of point the shaft at your belly button) and you're relaxed enough it's really easy to squirt. I find if you can manage to squirt you'll usually get multiple orgasms as well. A standard session for me is three in a row.

    The first time I squirted it was hardly anything, just sort of splashed my partners hands, but now she gets a drenching a lot of the time and she's said that if she weren't in the way it'd probably hit the wall behind her, which is about 8 feet away.

    I usually use a vibrator when I'm squirting, but it's more of a safety blanket than a necessity. I just feel more secure if I'm holding the bullet down there.

    My partner has only recently discovered her g-spot and hasn't managed to squirt yet. But we're young, there's time, and it'll be a lot of fun working out how.


    I think the most important thing is knowing that you won't pee, and just being comfortable with your body and your partner. Once you have that and know where your g-spot is you're practically there.

  • andy: February 18, 2010 11:02

    hi---just want to say---as a man and at 52,you never stop learning,after 2 long failed relationships ,i have met ,a new lady,she is a widow and nearly 59,we met after chatting for a long time,she has woken my love making skills ,as she squirts ,and heard of this ,but never met any lady that could do this before--she says i hit her [g--spot --and she squirts as she cums---which is a lot----when making love to her ,i for get the times ,she cums ,its so many ]---her hubby was lucky to have such a woman as his wife----and i am her lucky lover now,i find this a big turn on ,and just playing ,and sucking her nipplles brings her to squirt as well---not only great sex,but find my--self falling in love---i can not tell you,how intense my orgasms are ,make love to my squirting lover---regards andy

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