• The three golden rules for a sizzling threesome

    You all know how spectacularly I fucked up my threesome with Sasha and her husband, which admittedly melted down into her and I eating each other out while her drunken beau struggled to get a grip on the situation. But, last night, I had another go at the fabled threesome and it was fantastic!

    I was the 'third' person, and the other two were a couple I met through my work colleague Jason a few weeks ago. It's not like I asked Jason to call everyone he knew to see if anyone would be up for a threesome... A group of us went out after work and we got to talking about sex – you know, what we've done in the past, what we'd love to do – and I mentioned that it would be cool to try another threesome.

    Anyway, Jason's friend Mark was with us that night and, after buying me a few delicious shots of Grey Goose vodka, he confessed that he'd been turned on by my openness about having a threesome and that he and his girlfriend have taken part in quite a few threesomes in the past. To cut a long story short, Jason and his girl came over to mine last night and it was, without question, the horniest night of sex I have ever had.


    I think the main reason why it worked last night and not with Sasha and her jealous husband, is because Jason and his girlfriend are insanely secure in their relationship. They're madly in love, want to spend their lives together and have a completely trusting relationship where they open themselves up to experimentation, fulfilling each other's sexual fantasies and always keeping their sex life fresh and exciting. Hence the threesomes.

    They both made me feel extremely relaxed, desired, completely involved and hugely turned on. It felt amazing to slip into their private sexual world and feel welcome, and so I asked them what they think are the golden rules you should follow if you want a sizzling threesome. This is what they said:

    1. Only have a threesome if you both want to. If you're just going along with the threesome because you want to please your partner, or even worse because you're sexually bored of your partner, don't do it, because you'll only hurt yourself in the long run. Also, if you or your lover are prone to fits of jealousy, tread cautiously – is it really worth all those possible arguments?

    2. Establish ground rules. It's easy to feel jealous as hell when watching your partner getting hot and heavy with another person, so make sure you talk about what you're comfortable with and, most importantly, what's off limits. Jason and his girlfriend don't allow any kissing on the mouth during a threesome, which they feel is something special that they can enjoy exclusively.

    3. Don't have a threesome with your friend! Possibly the most important thing you should remember is to never have a threesome with one of your mates. This could potentially ruin your friendship or your relationship if things go wrong. It's always best to have a threesome with someone you have no ties with. More and more couples are now placing ad's in specialist magazines (such as Scarlet magazine); the personal ad's section of their local newspaper and on adult websites (such as www.34u.co.uk, www.intimate-personals.co.uk and www.youradultworld.com) looking for that 'third' person. They even meet up a few times beforehand to make sure they're suitable.

    If any of you are planning on having a threesome in the next few months (or if you have had one in the past) leave a comment here and tell us about your experience, plus any tips you have for those trying their first threesome!

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