• Ben Dover Interview: how to star in your own porn movie - and what he's really like in bed

    UK porn star Ben Dover - the best of British One of the most famous - and sexiest - male porn stars of all time, the legend that is Ben Dover spares some of his highly sought after time to discuss all things sex-related. Wanna know which sex toy Ben rates the most? Want to read about his first sexual experience and how he rates himself in bed? Or perhaps you're dying to hear his Top Five Tips for starring in your own porno? If so, read it all here and more!


    Bad Kitty: Hi Ben, most people know you as a porn star, but you have actually launched a new range of sex toys, too. How did this come about and why did you feel the need to get into the sex toy industry?

    Ben Dover: "It just seemed like a natural progression, and it gives a certain kind of extra cachet to the brand. The toy industry is worth a lot of money these days, and it also means that I can promote the Ben Dover brand in other retail outlets rather than just licensed sex shops."

    BK: What is your favourite item from your new sex toy range?

    BD:"Ben Dover Hard Drive Cock Ring is certainly the best seller, and it's a good toy. It's like a cock ring with a vibrating bullet. I haven't tried one yet but they sound like fun."

    BK:Do you use any of the sex toys as part of your sexual routine and did you used sex toys before designing your own range?

    BD:"Not really. I was advised by the experts in the sextoy field! Previously I had a range of toys from Doc Johnson and I used them in some scenes so that the viewer could see them 'in action,' so to speak. The Anal Trainer Kit was a particularly useful tool when it came to introducing anal virgins to the delights of 'skiing off-piste.'

    "Right now we're looking into the possibility of adding a rabbit vibrator to the range, but it needs to be different from what's already out there. I have a team of women all over the country who are currently road testing a device I want to call 'Ben's Bunny.' It's the first rabbit vibe with a forward thrusting option as well as the vibrating facility. Unfortunately, at the moment I would say it's slightly under-engineered because the feedback I'm getting suggests that the thrust mechanism is a bit on the noisy side..."

    Ben Dover - star of screen BK: Moving onto your porn career, what is the horniest sex scene you have ever filmed?

    BD: "They are all horny in their own way, but I would say the scene from XXX FACTOR with an estate agent called Julie was the horniest scene I've shot recently – she was unbelievable. The Natalie Heck scene and the one we did with Elle Brooke were pretty close to a textbook Ben Dover Show, too."

    BK:So how did you start out as a porn star?

    BD: "I answered an ad for models in The Stage in 1978. It turned out to be for PRIVATE magazine. I got £150 a day back then, which was unbelievable. It subsidised my [failed] music career to a large extent."

    BK:That's interesting. So tell me about your first sexual experience?

    BD:"It was at No. 2 Trelawney Rd, Newquay, during the summer of 1973. I'd just been expelled from school and I'd got a job as a drummer in a band during the summer season. My school girlfriend came down to stay for a few days and it was our first time away on our own. I think we were both virgins, well, I was anyway! I remember afterwards that we listened to the (then new) Marvin Gaye album What's Going On, which is still one of my all time favourites."

    BK:Do you actually make women orgasm when you have sex with them on film?

    BD: "I think we may be drifting off into the realms of fantasy now. Sadly, I don't think there is any woman out there who would have an orgasm having sex with me."

    BK: But you must have some kind of signature move in bed?

    BD: "Yes, coming too quickly and being generally crap! I'm pretty rubbish at sex, bizarrely."

    BK:Which porn star would you most like to work with?

    BD: "I don't really like porn stars as such. I'm not a big fan of that whole 'porn star look.' If pushed I'd say Taylor Hayes, but I don't know if she's still around. We did some presenting together at the AVN awards a few years ago and I got a definite 'twinge' from her! None of the current ones really get me going, though. The 80s stars were the ones that I lusted over. I'd have crawled over broken glass to fuck Traci Lords back then, and there was also a European actress called Marilyn Jess. She was just awesome."

    BK:What is your favourite sex film?

    BD: "Fashionistas is just a fantastic movie, but most of my favourites are from the 80s. Alex de Renzy was one of my heroes and his film Babyface is brilliant."

    BK: For all the men reading this, can you give them a few tips for making their dicks look bigger and better on screen?

    BD: "Yes, just get a wide-angle lens!"

    Ben Dover - porn pioneer BK: Is there any particular warm-up you do before shooting a sex scene?

    BD: "No, the way I shoot the warm up is all done on screen."

    BK: Lastly, can you give Bad Kitty readers your own
    Top Five tips for preparing and starring in their own home porn movie?

    BD::
    "Firstly you need a stiff cock. No-one wants to see a limp dick, so if it ain't hard, stop filming until it is!

    Secondly, you need a wet pussy. That means foreplay guys...

    Make sure there is plenty of light. A 40-watt bedside lamp may put you in an intimate mood, but it's not enough for filming.

    Remember that you are having sex for the camera, so be aware of getting in positions where the lens can see what's going on.

    Lastly, don't try to make the Ben Hur of porn. No-one wants to see you doing your missus doggystyle for three and a half hours! Four positions, 30 minutes. That's all you need."

    For more information on Ben, check out his website: www.bendover.com

    Comments (3)

    • jac: May 10, 2012 19:49
      top dog
    • colin faraday: May 10, 2014 00:04
      Hi Ben: I have a Thai wife, and we spend summers in England. She is very sexy and loves watching your vids. She wants to be able to perform with you and your colleagues, She prefers 2/3/4 guys together. Can you oblige? If interested I will send you her pics. She is 42, but very attractive and very sexy!
      cheers
      Colin
    • cathy,35y: September 05, 2014 22:46
      Hi I'm 35 & an't nothink I can't do & yeh love to have ben dover & love to swallow. mmm yummy yum yum.
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