• Can't orgasm through normal sex? Try this position instead...

    O' My Natural LubricantI tried a new position last night, which, at first, I never thought would make me come, but it did... twice. So I thought I would share it with you guys in the hope that it gets you off as much as it did me.

    It's probably called a million different names to a million different people, but I'm going to call this particular position the Horizontal Spoon.

    The Horizontal Spoon is quite simple when you establish a rhythm, but actually getting into the position takes a tiny bit of maneuvering. You can either perform the Horizontal Spoon on your bed, your sofa or on the floor, and you'll need to apply a generous amount of lube beforehand – no matter how wet you are. The lube we used last night was called O' My Natural Lubricant", and I highly recommend it for grindier, more vigorous sex.

    In this position your lover needs to lie straight on his back. There's an easy way to get into the Horizontal Spoon, which I tried last night and it worked without any discomfort. When you lover is lying on his back, straddle him in the Reverse Cowgirl position – gentle lower yourself down on to his penis with your bottom facing towards him.


    Once his penis is comfortably inside you, gradually start to lean backwards so that your back is lowering down onto your lover's chest. I found last night that after I got a certain way down towards my lover's chest, I had to shift my bottom up a bit to get more of his penis inside me. Eventually, you will end up lying on top of your lover in a parallel position with your back and legs lying directly on top of your partner's chest and legs.

    Because I was positioned on top of my lover, he had full access to my clit and breasts, which meant I could experience the double sensation of his penis penetrating me, while his fingers worked my clit and excited my nipples.

    Because you will be in such an exposed position, it's the perfect oppourtunity for your lover to experiment with ice cubes. My lover drove me wild last night by using some ice from a well-placed Gin and tonic to trace over my nipples, my inner thigh and my clit. By the time he clamped his warm hand over and in my vagina, the contrast in sensations was incredible and lead to orgasm No 1.

    Orgasm No 2 came through a mixture of passionate kissing – you can turn you head to one side to face your lover and use your tongue for lots of 'porno kissing' – and his penis grinding away against my vaginal walls.

    If you want to try an intimate move or if you have trouble reaching climax through penetrative sex alone, this position is perfect because of its strong 'clit factor.'

    Go home and try it tonight, and let me know how it was for you!

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